Conversations about care are a sensitive topic that requires careful consideration. If you have ageing parents, grandparents, or other relatives, you may have broached it before and certainly won’t be alone if you were faced with reluctance.
A common and understandable concern is a loss of independence. However, introducing occasional support early-on can help manage this. They won’t feel overwhelmed by frequent visits and will see how care promotes independence. Afterall, a good care company is there to support people in carrying on living their normal day-to-day life — from facilitating a walk, to driving to the local shops, to helping prepare their favourite meals.
As well as introducing support early-on, starting with a short-term service can sometimes be beneficial. After the first few visits, it is not uncommon for them to start to enjoy the support, companionship, and new relationships they have formed with Care Professionals. Equally, an initial ‘trial period’ will help them to understand how care-at-home can work as you build a relationship with a trusted provider for the future.
It is vitally important to keep your relatives part of any decision-making process — from the type of support, to frequency of visits, to provider of choice. All good care companies will answer any questions and, before starting any support, should always visit in-person to discuss your loved one’s wishes.
Conclusion
Approaching the topic of home care for older relatives with effective communication is crucial. By focusing on independence, involving them in decisions and offering trial options, you can create a plan that ensures their wellbeing while respecting their autonomy.
About the Author: Ed Gill is Director of York’s only CQC Outstanding home care provider and has worked with dozens of care organisations across the country to develop person-centred care and support services.
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