Supporting Elderly People with a Military Background
November is a time of reflection. Across York and the surrounding villages, communities pause to remember those who have served in the armed forces. For elderly people with a military background, this can be a particularly emotional time — one that brings memories, both proud and painful, to the surface. Each veteran carries their own unique story. Some speak openly about their experiences, while others may choose quiet reflection. However they choose to mark this time, it’s important that we recognise the impact their service has had, not only on the world around us, but on their own lives as they grow older. Understanding someone’s military history can shape the way we support them — whether they live with family, alone, or receive any kind of care. Routines, values and a strong sense of identity often remain rooted in their time in service. Simple gestures, like asking about their experiences, helping them attend a local remembrance event, or simply listening when they choose to talk, can mean more than we realise. Some veterans may be living with physical injuries, long-term health conditions, or the effects of trauma. Others may be facing memory loss, where familiar music, military traditions or past roles can spark a sense of connection. At a time when loneliness can become more noticeable, small acts of kindness and understanding can go a long way. This November, let us take the time to honour the stories, sacrifices and strength of those who served. Supporting veterans in later life is not just about what we do for them — it is about how we see them, respect them and stand beside them.
About the Author:
Ed Gill is Director of York’s only CQC Outstanding home care provider and has worked with dozens of care organisations across the country to develop person-centred care and support services.
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